google10f6c5feb7e3e05c.html

Foster

This Year, Commit to Being a Resilience Leader

Leader-Jehyun Sung-unsplash.jpg

The last two years have been tough. The chronic stress of living through a global pandemic is still taking its toll, and many of us saw our resilience erode as a result.

While there is some hope that the pandemic will end this year, we still have some difficult months ahead. Resilience Leaders, managers who foster a culture of resilience in their organizations and teams, are needed now more than ever.

As a senior leader in the U.S. Department of State, I saw first-hand the value of leading in a way that fosters the resilience of an office or embassy. After I recovered from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder due to my service in Iraq, I initially focused on my resilience. As I moved into more senior leadership positions, I realized that being a resilient leader was not enough, and paying attention only to my resilience risked neglecting my team.

I learned that I also needed to model resilience-building behaviors, mentor employees who had low resilience and foster the resilience of my team. When I became a Resilience Leader instead of just a resilient leader, my team's performance improved dramatically.

Here's how you can be a Resilience Leader:

Model Resilience Behaviors

  • Actions matter: As a leader, employees are watching everything you do. If they see you exercising over lunch, leaving work on time to attend your daughter’s soccer match, openly grieving the loss of a loved one, or taking a vacation without checking emails, they are more likely to do the same. Spend the next month examining your behavior. What messages are you sending or not sending through your actions?

  • Actions speak louder than words: Talking about resilience without behaving in ways that improve resilience can cause harm since employees may perceive you as hypocritical, which can erode trust. While it may be helpful to talk about your behavior as a form of modeling, let your actions speak and minimize your words.

Mentor Employees with Low Resilience

  • Build trust: Your employees will be more open with you if they trust you. Build credibility early on by getting to know your employees and demonstrating your commitment to their well-being.

  • Ask questions: If you see an employee who is struggling, point out what you are seeing and then ask open-ended questions that indicate a genuine interest in hearing what is going on. Continue to pose follow-up questions that give your employee control over how much they tell you, yet encourage them to talk.

  • Listen: Many people just want someone who will listen. If you reach an awkward silence, resist the temptation to fill the silence by talking. While you may want to share some experiences you’ve had that are relevant, the focus of the conversation should be on your employee, not on you.

  • Don’t problem-solve: Many of us want to solve problems because it gives us control, especially when we are uncomfortable with an emotional issue. However, jumping immediately into problem-solving can appear to be dismissive or condescending. Instead, encourage your employee to talk. At the end of the conversation, if appropriate, guide them to explore potential ways forward.

Foster Team Resilience

  • Foster the 7Cs of Team Resilience: If you are the head of your office or organization, you will have the most significant impact on your team's resilience. Make the 7Cs of Team Resilience one of your leadership priorities.

  • Encourage others to build team resilience: Recognize that every member can contribute to their team's resilience and effectiveness. Involve everyone on your team in strengthening the 7Cs.

To learn more about being a Resilience Leader, check out my Udemy Resilience Leadership course. This two-hour course explains how to model, mentor, and foster resilience and is filled with activities that will improve your resilience leadership skills. The course is free for the first 100 people who use this link to register before January 27, 2022.

Are you a Resilience Leader? Have you worked for a Resilience Leader? What do you/they do to model, mentor and foster resilience?

___________________________

To learn more about how you and your team can thrive in adversity, visit my website, and follow me on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter.

google10f6c5feb7e3e05c.html